We love how our parents love whether we are conscious of it or not.

If your parents would move from relationship to relationship it is most likely you will. If your parents used others as transactions it’s most likely you will. If your parents always lied, cheated and left a good person it’s most likely you will too. If your parent was passive aggressive, didn’t show affection or didn’t communicate in relationships it’s most likely you will as well.

What we see growing up shapes us so deeply in our lives and we will keep repeating the same patterns over and over until we break the pattern.

When it comes to love and relationships it is the pattern that lets us know where people are at.

If they always have someone else (a back up plan) they will never be fully committed and in it with you.

If they are always trying to make you jealous or don’t put in any action they will never be able to grow the relationship.

We can oftentimes want to grow a relationship but sometimes have to be real with ourselves and see what is in front of us.

See the truth of the unchanged patterns of having back up plans, communication with past lovers, back up partners, lack of transparency and not fully committed to the future with you.

Sometimes you have to see that it is not you!

Women are always given the insight, vision, sense to feel and know what is going on- but there is a deep wound women hold around this as they are given the answers but the person they are with will tell them they are trippin, wrong, doing too much, here we go again (flipped on them) etc.

A woman always knows. Always!

The womb is where everything is held and we are taught as women to deny ourselves and our senses/visions to love even when we know the love is not committed/loyal solely to us.

We are taught to be quiet and be okay with it because we are running out of time “biologically” and might as well have something instead of nothing.

The truth is that the old templates are and have been over and we are asked to be deeply committed in love, loyal to our senses and let a person be mutually in love with us and provide/keep us safe. Women oftentimes do not know safety as the one they love they don’t feel safe with because they are always out cheating etc. (this is not every relationship).

Society teaches us that it is cool to have “sneaky links” multiple partners and transactional partners- this is taking away from the safety unconditional love provides and also allows you to dive deeply into to explore self/soul and love.

Moving forward we are asked to open ourselves up to a new type of love. One that is expansive, safe, loyal, committed, growth, values align, soulful love.

We are building a new world and in that space we are building a new template to receive reciprocal love – love that we have always given and been committed an loyal to.

It is time.

The shadows have taught you a lot but now you can leave the shadows and let your love be bright and the light that is testimonial love for all to see.

You do not have to be hidden in love anymore as the world is waiting to see an example of “love always finds a way”.