There is an emotional reset taking place as we move through this New Moon water trine of the great divine.

In astrology Aries is the new year as it resets the physical but Cancer New Moon is the new year in emotions as we reset our emotional waters and hearts.

You have been in the turbulent waters as they washed away the old pains, wounds, traumas, limitations and restrictions that were in your mind + heart and showing up as chaos and defeat in your everyday life.

Over the past few weeks/months you have come face to face with all of your fears, wounds and trauma helping you to release the roots and detach you from your family line so that you could be fully whole.

As the dust settles you can see just how you have been resistant to the very thing your heart desires.

We have been clearing away the old archetype of the mother + father with the Capricorn and Cancer axis and this has given way to show us just how much our family roots have hindered/kept us in cycles and patterns hurting us in love as we repeated cycles we saw growing up from our parents thinking it was how it should be.

The feminine has played out the cycles of doing everything on her own because the masculine always has left and the masculine has been playing out cycles of leaving due to “life”, needing perfection and seeing an absent father growing up.

This is where we learn to throw out the old templates, checklists and learn to root in, stay and be supported/support in love as we come back to our hearts and see that what matters is the person we are committed to growing with in love – good, bad and ugly and understanding the mirror in it all.

Oftentimes we get stuck in the black and white- my way or the highway etc when it comes to relationships and this is rooted in deep fear of rejection and abandonment so we abandon before someone can to us and so instead of choosing possibility we choose pain.

This is where the Cancer New Moon is helping us to clear wounds around deep abandonment, rejection, unworthiness, neglect, feeling unloved etc.

We can often look to our partner to soothe our deep wounds and get mad when they don’t when either they do not know because you have not shared, but also because it is your duty to soothe them and heal them and not make your partner responsible to do it all.

We can get caught in this “ride or die” type of love as well which can hurt the feminine as the old wounded masculine templates brings the feminine through all the traumas, bad behaviors etc to show she is worthy of love/prove her love… when in reality this the masculine not holding the feminine’s heart and soul… but the feminine is doing so only for him.

As we move deeper into the New Moon and reset our emotions and come back to our hearts we can see how hard we are when it comes to love when in fact we all just want to be loved deeply… so open your heart and let the waters purify you as you bloom once again.