Divine Feminine Needs to be fully held in extreme safety to completely express all sides of her known and unknown.
Women have walked around since the beginning of time watching their surroundings feeling unsafe and unprotected as their has always been a war on their bodies and safety. She never knew what the masculine would do, say or create with his “power”… so she had to protect herself.
Her first need is always and has always been safety!
The feminine wants to let out all parts of her- wild and untamed, but she often struggles with feeling safe to do so and can become very shy, timid and fearful that if she lets herself come out she will be judged or even worse something bad could happen.
All her life she has felt like her love and body was transactional to have a child or to keep a man “pleased”.
She was taught to keep the man happy through her body even if she didn’t feel comfortable with it or didn’t want to- she still would just to keep a man or to feel wanted/needed.
The divine feminine knows when the masculine is stepping outside of the relationship or when he is fully committed or half way in and half way out and oftentimes this is confusing for the feminine because she is made to mate with her mate for life and give her magic, knowledge and gifts to multiply tenfold with her mate but when the energy is half in half out she becomes distorted in her manifestations and fully being open and free as she has to limit herself and censor herself because deep down she knows it’s not fully safe to give it all.
When her partner is fully committed all the way, not going anywhere and treats her like the goddess she is- fully holding her in all that she is by creating a safe space for her to explore her mind, heart, soul, body and magic- she can fully let go, open up and give everything to her mate.
She can express the wild side of her in the bedroom and outside because she can be held in the safety of her body and energy.
She also needs the safety from the men who are not her mates but her brothers and men on the streets. She needs to be able to walk to streets baring her true self without having to hide her power because she could get assaulted in some way.
She needs to know that it is safe for her to be the divine feminine and that the masculine is here to support her known and unknown.
The masculine duty is to hold the container and safety for the feminine to express itself- this is externally and internally as we hold both within us.