We don’t often realize that the love story we grew up with from our family is the very one that we are trying to break.

Divorce is a curse that is placed on love in the family line.

Infidelity is a curse placed on your heart in love.

Using others in relationships to get ahead,

Abuse, gaslighting, stonewalling, drugs, lack of communication, manipulation, criminal activity, separation, multiple lovers etc are all curses that are placed upon you in love if you saw or experienced any of this growing up.

Growing up and seeing separation or anything in the relationship that caused it to be dysfunctional and broken teaches you that it is okay and now you do not see what a healthy 2 person household/relationship looks like.

Divorce is easy as it brings a space of non forgiveness, not working out the problem through communication, giving up, not finding conflict resolution etc.

Now this is not always but oftentimes what we are taught is it is easier to cut off people then to work on the problem and find solutions, meet in the middle and build sometime solid.

Cut off culture is actually hurt culture. (But that’s for another time)

We live in a society where we were brought up to have the masculine taken away from the household and taught about women independence (don’t need a man for nothing) which creates even more divide between masculine and feminine.

We have been taught to have sex to fill a void instead of the deep power that sex holds and bond you with another soul.

We just have been “having” babies without actually making babies from “love” (oneness)- which is where a lot of these babies are born into a foundation of separation/divide of the masculine and feminine.

Venus in Capricorn is having us scan our worlds, to dive deep into what we saw growing up and to break these generational curses around love… to do something different.

Venus is Capricorn is here to build the foundation, make it work and put in that hard work to see love bloom and flourish as it knows it is building the kingdom for all that is to come.