Lilith is an asteroid and is our shadow side that we oftentimes feel shame, guilt, misunderstood and uncomfortable with and can go into self destructive extremes and reject ourselves. 

Learn to use your Lilith sign as a space of balance and power in your life. 

Lilith is Aries 

Learn to Embody: Power, self and anger as a tool

Fear in expressing self fully and in taking the lead. 

Shame can be present for making choices that may seem selfish. 

Anger can often arise as you may not feel able to express yourself and your needs.

Learn to use anger as a tool to help you step into power and lead with what feels best for you. 

Walk to the beat of your own drum.

Lilith In Taurus

Learn to Embody: Pleasure and your senses

Shame in self indulging and expressing through your senses. 

Hard time expressing and feeling secure and wanted. 

You may never feel satisfied in your desires.

Learn to enjoy your desires and self expression by indulging in healthy ways that benefit you and the greater good. 

It is okay to want and have more. 

Lilith in Gemini

Learn to Embody: Self expression and acceptance

There may be shame in expressing yourself and your knowledge as you may never feel understood or heard. 

There can be extreme behavior in other areas of your life due to lack of self expression. 

Learn to accept your unique self and genius way of thinking and find healthy ways to express yourself through non verbal forms of expression. 

Lilith in Cancer 

Learn to Embody: Self care and deeper nurturing

Wounds around being dependant and wanting more love and expression from others.

Can feel resentment towards others and not be able to express the love and compassion you need. 

Give yourself permission to love yourself deeper and to not take other people’s love languages too personal. 

Learn to love unconditionally. 

Lilith in Leo 

Learn to Embody: Empowerment and self acceptance

Shame in allowing yourself to be seen and calling attention to you to be in the spotlight. 

You may feel uncomfortable expressing yourself, your gifts, talents as others may feel threatened by your life. 

Learn to applaud yourself and give yourself credit where it is due. 

Shine your light even brighter and let them see you shine. 

Lilith in Virgo

Learn to Embody: Being perfectly imperfect 

May feel shame in seeing the details in everything and seeing the negative side or even the truth that others are not wanting to see. 

There is shame in trying to always find perfectionism, constantly abandoning what is not perfect through purging the old.

Learn that it is okay to see truth and imbalance in life. 

It is okay to bring truth to the table as you can see the purity in all. 

Lilith in Libra

Learn to Embody: Finding balance with self and others

Wounds around wanting to have relationships and companionship. 

There is dependency and a need to have approval from others in what you do. 

There can be extreme behavior in order to feel good about yourself or to get approval /relationships attention. 

Learn to find balance in yourself and give yourself what you crave from others. 

Lilith in Scorpio 

Learn to Embody: Multiple forms of health connection 

Deep shame around your need for intimacy, closeness and deeper connection with those you love. 

Can get attached easily and get caught up in fantasy worlds easily. 

Over indulging in sex or degus need attention or deeper connection.

 Learn to give yourself deeper and find balance in your shadows. 

Lilith in Sagittarius 

Learn to Embody: Freedom of all forms of self expression

Can feel guilt and shame for wanting to be free, in questioning everything and for needing to have different ways of expressing your beliefs and creativity. 

Learn to freely express your curiosity and let others do the same as you may learn something new from them. 

Find new outlets for your creativity and beliefs. 

Lilith in Capricorn 

Learn to Embody: Self empowerment 

Shame in the need to want to be successful and excel in your career etc. 

May feel judged for always wanting more in status, material and money. 

May feel hard to connect with others who do not share the ambition to succeed.

Learnto find communities who are striving for the success you desire.

 It is okay to be successful and want more in all areas of your life. 

Lilith in Aquarius 

Learn to Embody: Your unique self 

Shame on wanting to be a part of the crowd but standing out and being different. 

May not feel like you belong anywhere and always feel you are rejected and misunderstood. 

Feel you need to hide, shrink down or not be around others because they do not fully connect with you. 

Learn to walk to your own drum and lead in your own unique ways others will follow soon. 

Lilith in Pisces

Learn to Embody: Finding balance between worlds

May feel shame for benign needy wishy washy or for not connecting with others. 

Extreme yourself in your needs or give them to yourself. 

Feelings or needing to be in the fantasy world running away or always searching for something more when you feel fear or lost. 

Give yourself permission to enjoy where you are and create from this place. 

Give yourself what you need and find balance.