One of the biggest lessons this year has been in love- how it shows up for you, how you block it, how you receive it and how you give it, but also how we mourn love as well.

Love has many chapters and it is in love that we are taught to understand the depth of the death and rebirth cycle as each day, moment and stage of love is a constant reminder of the evolution of love.

Venus in Scorpio taught us the lesson we have been moving through all year on a deeper level, which is to learn how to love without limits and to understand how to choose love over and over again.

In order to love deeper you must let the past relationship die to build a new foundation.

Nowadays we often see love distorted with third party energies, instant gratification, casual sex, non committed/loyal relationships, transactional relationships and one party unwilling to change.

Deep love is not for the weak as it will pull out all of your triggers and ask you to heal deeper, but also ask you to set boundaries when you see that someone is still playing the field instead of focusing on building a pure foundation.

Women who are in tune feel when there is another party being entertained as they can feel the masculine energy scattered and feel her energy in their relationship- this causes her to shut down, not feel safe and blocks the masculine’s own blessings.

One of the biggest problems in relationships is infidelity and this could mean even when you two are on a “break”.

Even if on a break the question still remains are you committed to your heart and the person you love or the flesh and instant gratification?

The cycles must be broken as we move into a new world, the old way of relationships and all this numbing, checking out, infinitely etc. is not going to fly- because it is not serving anyone and is not of the highest frequency of love. Period.

The last few weeks with Venus in Scorpio revealed truth around relationships especially with Mercury Retrograde in the mix.

It showed us where old templates are dead- where people have not changed, where you need to transform your love, where you need to love deeper and where you need to and where you need to set boundaries.

There are two world and one is full of the old templates of love and the new one is pure and deep hearted- and this will be more prevalent than ever before.

Oftentimes you are asked to love deeper but scared to do so until life throws a wrench in the mix and in that moment you are able to understand the truth of love and love from an unconditional state because that is who your true nature is.

This is what spirit has been trying to have you learn all year… how do you mourn the people you love and still love them even if it is from afar?

How do you love people and love yourself more thus overflowing into others?

How do you learn to forgive in love and still love?

After all the hurt, betrayal and lessons from an individual in love you can truly see who you are.

Sometimes your life depends on it and sometimes spirit will show you how to take yourself out of it and show up in love because that is your assignment.

Scorpio teaches us the shadows of love and how to love in the shadows as it is in the shadows of love that we truly find ourselves.