Love is messy.

Love will pull out all of your darkness.

Love will make you angry and triggered only to help you heal in the most deepest ways.

Love will bring out hope in you, your dreams and your passions again.

Love will move through a life/death/life process and it is in this moment that we remember that love is always renewing.

Venus in Gemini is teaching us the balance of light and dark in matters of the heart + relationships and just how the darker parts are what help us to learn unconditional love and to heal to bring in more light and beauty in the relationship.

It teaches us to let go of the ideals + constraints we have of others and the walls that we have up that keep us from loving deeper or letting people in.

We are revisiting energy from last year when Venus was in Gemini retrograde and just where we may have had wounds coming to the surface, where we were being provoked to heal insecurities and where we had not yet chosen.

Now that you have taken a step back and have had some deep healing you can see just where you needed that healing, where you were not standing in your power, not taking accountability, and where you were self sabotaging.

With Mercury + Venus in Gemini there is a unionization of your mind and heart to come into full alignment and you have been able to create just that where you are no longer wavering and have fully chosen what your heart desires.

Venus in Gemini teaches us to honor the light in dark in our relationships and in ourselves but also to show us how we sabotage our relationships by acting out of fears and staying in our heads…. come back into your heart.

How do you learn to honor the life, death, life cycle of love and understand that although you may be in the death cycle there is always a renewal just around the corner only this time better because you have grown and cleared out the old limiting beliefs etc… the key is to have the life/death/life and to learn to love over and over again with the same partner- your life partner.

When there is a death cycle in the relationship we fear the death and darkness and this is oftentimes when people quit relationships and feel they are done, not to understand that this is the death of the old way of doing things + clearing karma and is an invitation to go deeper into the relationship for understanding, intimacy and expansion- to breathe in new life into the relationship.

How often do you have a death cycle in your life? Do you give up or do you renew yourself and your life?

We must honor the life/death/life cycle of all.

How honor the cycles in your relationships?

How to stay in your heart?

Where do you need to come back to your heart?

Where do you give up when things get messy?

Where do you need to breathe life into your relationships?